Real love?

Everyone is looking for love.But what is the Love we all want and need?what does real love look like?How will we know when we've found it?
Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. It’s also Real Love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. It is not Real Love when other people like us for doing what they want.Under those conditions we’re just paying for love again.We can be certain that we’re receiving Real Love only when we make foolish mistakes, when we fail to do what other people want, and even when we get in their way, but they don’t feel disappointed or irritated at us. That is Real Love (true unconditional love), and that love alone has the power to heal all wounds, bind people together, and create relationships quite beyond our present capacity to imagine.

Some think of "being in love" as an unexplainable feeling that we "fall in and out of". if love offered was always returned,there would be enough to go around.If love always won the day,many more of us would be inspired to act lovingly even in the toughest circumstances.but love is always not returned.and sometimes when love is returned,it is redefined to fit our own interests.love often means different things to different people.Depending on who is doing the talking,love can be mean:-

• a feeling may not last
• a euphemism for sexual relationship
• self sacrificing action on behalf of others
• acceptance without criticism
• being more honest than nice

this is a few description about LOVE

A) Something extremely rare, precious, and infinitely mysterious, which nearly every individual (and every self-help author) claims to be an expert on.

B) Something that we can never define with words, yet are completely obsessed with.

C) What we all we all search for continually . . . and experience, rarely.

D) It's where you are " IT" to somebody else, and somebody else is "IT" to you.

E) A need, desire, sensation, craving, emotion, or appetite (such as security, loneliness, possessiveness, dependency, horniness, etc) dressed in a warm, heavy coat of wishful thinking and pretense.

F) Something we all talk about, think about, hear songs about, dream about, watch movies about, read about, sing about - about which we really know almost nothing.

G) Something we all taste in rare, brief moments of intimacy - which some say is a brief glimpse of actual spiritual enlightenment. . . but normally takes place in between long periods of pain, boredom, and loneliness

H) Something we base our lives around, but that most of us don't really want to waste any time actually thinking about. (see also: "Something way too important to talk about.")

I) Something that is so important that it needs not only to be talked about, but studied, researched, understood, practiced, and lived.

J) Something you promise to remain in, for better or worse, in sickness and health, for richer or poorer, etc, etc . . . or until you abandon it when things get boring or become inconvenient.

Soooo,anybody has any definition about love beside this