5 secrets to keep from him (Cosmopolitan March)

secret 1
Past Hookups:
he knows u didn't spend ur days in a convent pre- him, but that doesn't mean he wants mental images of you getting frisky with old flames. men may ask about other dudes, but what they're fishing to hear is that they're the best. avoid lying by not answering questions about ur sexual past. when he dig, tell him he's the only one u can think about in bed.

secret 2
How You spend UR Moola($$$$$$)
as long u don't share funds (but i do!) ur bf doesn't need to know where ur dough goes (he needs to know how much i spend). it stresses out guys to see u buy things they deem unnecessary- like clothes or shoes. the quick fix: when he compliments a dress, don't give him a rundown on where u got it and how much it cost (HAHAHA...aku slalu knk!). and if he asks, tell him it was waaayyy less than the big screen TV he splurged on.

secret 3
The way u feel about his family
Warning: dissing his clan will do damage to ur relationship. so even if his mom is Queen Bitch (dun get me wrong, i never think that way but i respect his family so much especially his mom), keep ur mouth shut. the minute u say something slightly negative, he will feel like u're making him choose between u and them and resent u for it. if they're truly awful, avoid being around them whenever u can.

secret 4
Innocent Flirtations
u love ur guy, but doesn't mean u can't chat up other men. In fact, being flirty is healthy as long as it doesn't go further. it may be tempting to brag that u still get male attention, especially if u feel ur guy takes u for granted, but telling him about the neighbor who checks out ur ass is going to make him feel insecure. keep quite, and take pleasure in the fact that u've still got it going on.

secret 5
what u really think of his gift
u're bound to get a few doozies from ur guy. instead of slamming him, find one good thing about each present. men aren't super expressive, so a gift is their way of saying they care. if u reject it, u reject him. next time, drop hints so he gets u something u like- for example mention about ur fav store!!!


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